The Joys of Flying

This winter has found me travelling more than usual. For the most part, that is a good thing. I enjoy the work, and it helps the long winter days go by a little faster. There is something energizing about being on the move, meeting people, and having purpose beyond watching the thermometer hover well below zero.

That said, travel is rarely without its challenges.

I was scheduled to leave for Newfoundland on Sunday morning at 8:00. On Friday afternoon, just as I was wrapping up the week, a text popped up from the airline. My flight had been cancelled, and I had been rebooked, automatically, for Monday evening. Panic kicked in almost immediately. That simply wasn’t going to work, if I was going to make it to Gander in time for my event.

Originally, the itinerary had me flying from Winnipeg to Montreal, then on to Halifax, and finally into Gander. After the airline made their changes, my new plan was to fly from Winnipeg to Toronto on Monday evening, sit in Toronto overnight, then catch a Tuesday morning flight to Halifax. So far, so good. The problem was that they had somehow kept my Halifax-to-Gander flight scheduled for Monday. Confused yet? I certainly was.

The truly humorous part was that the itinerary showed the total duration of my trip as minus 35 minutes. According to the airline, I wasn’t just travelling east, I was travelling through time. I was going to arrive before I left.

But I digress.

As soon as I got the notice on Friday, I started calling the airline. Unfortunately, due to widespread cancellations, I couldn’t get through. The website showed other possible flight options, but I needed to speak with an actual human being to make any changes. After hours of trying and getting nowhere, I finally gave up late that evening and went to bed, frustrated and more than a little anxious.

Early Saturday morning, I was back on the phone. This time, it didn’t take long before I reached an agent. He also got a kick out of my time-travel itinerary, which was reassuring in its own odd way. More importantly, he was genuinely helpful. The challenge, though, was that many of the flights that still had open seats the day before were now fully booked. Options were slim, except for one.

If I was willing to fly that very evening, we could make it work. Needless to say, I was willing.

The reason for all the cancellations, it turned out, was a major storm system moving into and across eastern Canada. That part was entirely legitimate. Weather was about to wreak havoc on travel plans across multiple provinces.

And here’s where I learned, or perhaps was reminded of, an important lesson. Sometimes when things don’t work out the way I want them to, there seems to be a reason. If I had managed to connect with an agent on Friday, I likely would have rebooked for Sunday later in the day. Based on the forecast, that would almost certainly have left me stuck in either Toronto or Halifax, both of which were bracing for massive snowfall. Because I couldn’t get through and had to wait, my revised travel plans now had me staying just ahead of the storm.

I’ve written about this before. In my book, I tell a story about a rock in the road, an obstacle that caused real hardship in the moment but ultimately saved me from a potential disaster. This experience felt much the same. I was frustrated. I experienced significant anxiety. But at the end of the day, things worked out far better than I could have hoped for.

Sometimes the delay isn’t the problem. Sometimes it’s the thing that quietly keeps you out of trouble, even when it doesn’t feel that way at the time. In the moment, all I could see was the inconvenience, the uncertainty, and the rising anxiety of not knowing how, or if, I’d get where I needed to be. But with a little distance, it became clear that the delay forced a different set of choices, ones that likely spared me from being stranded, exhausted, and frustrated somewhere along the way. It was a reminder that not every obstacle is a roadblock. Some are detours that protect us, even when we don’t recognize their value until we’re well past them.

It was a reminder that my first reaction isn’t always my wisest one, and that anxiety, while loud, isn’t always accurate. Sometimes what feels like a setback is simply a pause, one that gives me space to notice my patterns, loosen my grip on control, and trust that the path forward doesn’t always reveal itself on my timeline. Recovery, I’ve learned, isn’t about eliminating uncertainty, but about learning how to live with it a little more gently.